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Bully Books
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To find books on self esteem and empowerment, go to: SPECIAL COLLECTION and YOUNG ADULT BOOKS
HELPFUL LINKS: Stop Bullying Now and The Ophelia Project - Creating a safe social and emotional culture for girls
5 Up Aliki A Play's the Thing [fitting in, bullying, teamwork, friendship]
10-12 Debora Allie The Meanest Girl [And then it hits me. I was mean. Me! I've never though of myself as a mean person before, only other people.]
4-8 Jody Bergsma Dragon [enemies can become friends, weaknesses become strengths, fear replaced through love, acceptance and respect]
4-8 Cari Best Shrinking Violet [social anxiety/shyness/being bullied/overcoming fear]
4-8 Barbara Bottner Bootsie Barker Bites
7-9 Jim Boulden Push and Shove
4-7 Janie Bynum Pig Enough [bully/co-operation/fitting-in/acceptance/bravery/friendship]
4-8 Janell Cannon Crickwing [being different]
YA Elisa Lynn Carbone The Pack [school violence]
4-7 Nancy L. Carlson How to Lose All Your Friends [lie, cheat, be a bully, etc.]
Teacher Nancy A. Chicola and Eleanor B. English Creating Caring Communities with Books Kids Love
9-12 Sneed B. Collard Dog Sense [learning to cope with conflicts and challenges in an unfamiliar environment and to accept changes in life that are beyond control.]
Adult Barbara Coloroso The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander: From Preschool to High School, How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence
4-8 Bill Cosby The Meanest Thing To Say [school yard bully]
4-8 Carmela and Steven D'Amico Ella the Elegant Elephant [First day in a new school]
4-8 Tomie dePaola Oliver Button Is a Sissy
Trouble in the Barkers' Class [new kids in class/conflict resolution/bully/]
10-14 Beth Evangelista Gifted [witty novel provides a different perspective on bullying and the battle of brains versus brawn]
5-10 Paul Fleischman [Lesson Plans] WESLANDIA [WESLANDIA honors the misfits—and the creators—among us. Wesley's garden produces a crop of huge, strange plants which provide him with clothing, shelter, food, and drink, thus helping him create his own civilization and changing his life.]
YA Alex Flinn Breaking Point [bully, fitting in, school violence, teen social life]
Adult Judy S. Freedman Easing the Teasing : Helping Your Child Cope with Name-Calling, Ridicule, and Verbal Bullying
YA Graham Gardner Inventing Elliot [unflinching novel takes you deep into the mind of a boy who is coming to understand the nature of absolute power and its inevitable casualties, and also finding a bit of his own strength along the way.]
Adult Charlene C. Giannetti and Margaret Sagarese Cliques: Eight Steps to Help Your Child Survive the Social Jungle
YA William Gerald Golding Lord of the Flies
9-12 Mary Downing Hahn Stepping on the Cracks
6 Up Sensei Gary Hellman The Karate Way
6 Up
4-8
Kevin Henkes Chester's Way
Chrysanthemum [name teasing]
4-8 James Howe Pinky and Rex and the Bully
14 up Barry Jonsberg Dreamrider [Michael Terny is at his seventh school in four years and he knows that whatever he does, he will be ridiculed and pushed around. Michael is the fat kid. But Michael is also a lucid dreamer–he can recognize when he is dreaming and make the dream unfold exactly as he wants. Here he is safe and completely in control.]
4-8 Ezra Jack Keats Goggles [Two boys must outsmart the neighborhood bullies before they can enjoy their new treasure, a pair of lensless motorcycle goggles.]
4-7 Steven Kellog Jungle Bullies [Why should a large animal get away with bullying a smaller one? That’s what happens when Elephant takes Hippo’s spot in the pond, which causes Hippo to pick on Lion, Lion to pick on Leopard, and Leopard to pick on Monkey. Monkey asks his mother for advice, and she comes up with just the right solution to solve the problem. Even bullies can learn to share.]
YA David Klass Home of the Braves [soccer/bullies]
7-9 Susz Kline Horrible Harry in Room 2B
YA Kathe Koja Buddha Boy [The kids at Edward Rucher High School call Jinsen “Buddha Boy” and condemn him as a freak. With his shaved head and perpetual smile, Jinsen certainly doesn’t help matters when he starts begging for lunch money in the cafeteria. So when Justin is paired with Jinsen for a class project, he plans to get done with it as soon as possible, and climb right back into his safe social niche. Then Justin discovers Jinsen’s incredible artistic talent and becomes curious about his beliefs. But being friends with Buddha Boy isn’t simple, and Justin is forced into a cruel contest with the jocks who just can’t seem to leave Jinsen, or his artwork, alone.]
reluctanct readers Paul Langan The Bluford Series [High Interest/5th-6th grade RL/reluctanct readers]
The Bully
The Gun [sequel]
Brothers in Arms [drive-by shooting/anger management]
The Fallen [sequel]
All 13 titles in this powerful series.
PreK Munro Leaf Story of Ferdinand
5-8 Patty Lovell Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon ["Sing out clear and strong and the world will cry tears of joy"]
4-8 Helen Lester Hooway for Wodney Wat [All his classmates make fun of Rodney because he can't pronounce his name, but it is Rodney's speech impediment that drives away the class bully.]
5-9 Janice Levy Alley Ooops [painful and embarrassing aftermath of name-calling and bullying from th eperspective of the bully.
5-11
6-9
Trudy Ludwig
[Includes Interviews]
My Secret Bully [bullying by a friend] [Appendix: Resources, links, Discussion questions]
Just Kidding [A joke that has a sharp edge to it can cut you to pieces. That’s what D.J. finds out from his encounters with Vince, a smart-aleck classmate whose biting humor is more hurtful than funny. With the help of his dad and teacher, D.J. learns how to stand up to put downs and make healthier friendship choices.] [In Spanish - Solo Bromeaba
Trouble Talk [Maya's friend Bailey loves to talk about everything and everyone. At first, Maya thinks Bailey is funny. But when Bailey's talk leads to harmful rumors and hurt feelings, Maya begins to think twice about their friendship. Acquaints readers with the damaging consequences of "trouble talk"--talking to others about someone else's troubles in order to establish connection and gain attention. Includes additional resources for kids, parents, and teachers, as well as advice from Trudy about how to combat trouble talk.]
10-14 Chris Lynch Who The Man [adolescence to manhood/ gender stereotypes/self-discovery]
YA Peter Marino Dough Boy [A high school boy struggles with his weight, the acceptance of his classmates, and find the guts to make his own way. Painfully touching and funny]
12-16 Sue Mayfield Drowning Anna [attempted suicide/teen cruelty/bullying] Recommended for parents as well.
5-8 Becky McCain Nobody Knew What to Do: A Story About Bullying [excellent for reading aloud/feeling powerless/"tell without 'tattling'." ]
4-8 Susan Meddaugh Martha Walks the Dog
11-13 Ben Mikaelsen Touching Spirit Bear [anger management/conflict/bad choices/being held accountable]
4-8 Phyllis Reynolds Naylor The King of the Playground
4-7 John Nickle The Ant Bully
4-8 Alexis O'Neill The Recess Queen [school yard bully/kindness and friendship]
Adult Dan Olweus Bullying at School: What We Know and What We Can Do
YA Katherine Hall Page Club Med [being different, tolerating cruelty, and having "a disability that no one can see." (ADHD)
8-10 Barbara Park Dear God, Help! Love, Earl
4-8 Tracey Campbell Pearson Myrtle [When a mean neighbor moves in next door, Myrtle gets good advice from her Aunt Tizzy and some good ideas how to handle this bully.]
4-8 Jean E. Pendziwol Tale of Sir Dragon, The: Dealing with Bullies for Kids (and Dragons) [Setting out from Camp Camelot in search of a noble quest, a girl and her dragon friend cross swords with a bully of a knight. The bully says the dragon is too big, tall and green to play knights. Suddenly, playtime is spoiled. The girl stands up for the dragon, but the other bystanders let the bully do as he pleases. It's time for a petition to the king! After a roundtable discussion, the bully comes to accept that everyone has a right to play -- no matter how big, tall or green they are!]
11 Up Rodman Philbrick Freak the Mighty
YA Pixley, Marcella FREAKS [This riveting first novel introduces readers to an unforgettable heroine, an outsider who dares to confront the rigid conformity of junior high, and in the process manages not only to save herself but to inspire and transform others./Bullying]
4-8 Nikolai Popov Why? [powerful wordless picture book]
YA Carol Plum-Ucci The Body of Christopher Creed
7-11 Natalie Kinsey-Warnock The Night the Bells Rang
6 Up Trevor Romain Bullies Are a Pain in the Brain
5 Up Tor Seidler Mean Margaret - Will Mean Margaret ever realize that there's more to life than being nasty to everybody?
4-8 David Shannon A Bad Case of Stripes [don't deny the person that you are!]
14 up Neil Shusterman UNWIND [In a society where unwanted teens are salvaged for their body parts, three runaways fight the system that would "unwind" them. Readers' ideas are challenged about life -- not just where life begins, and where it ends, but what it truly means to be alive.]
9-12 Susan Richards Shreve Joshua T. Bates Takes Charge
Adult Rachel Simmons Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls [advice for girls, parents, teachers, and even school administrators, Odd Girl Out is a groundbreaking work that every woman will agree is long overdue.]
YA Alan Lawrence Sitomer The Hoopster [multicultural group of friends/racism/aspiring African-American writer/urban teens. Reluctant readers.] [Teacher's Guide]
9-12 Jerry Spinelli Maniac Magee [Classroom Guide]
Star Girl
9-12 Mary Stolz The Bully of Barkham Street
5-8 Sam Swope Araboolies of Liberty Street [he General and Mrs. Pinch rule Liberty Street, prohibiting all laughter and games. Joy and the other youngsters who live there are unhappy but there is nothing they can do about it. Then the Araboolies, who speak no English and who change skin color daily, move in. Life becomes chaotic, exciting, and fun offers the welcome message of tolerance.]
YA Janet Tashjian Fault Line [dating/abusive adolescent relationships
All Marlo Thomas Free to Be ... You and Me
5-8 Pat Thomas Stop Picking On Me! [identifying bullies/explores options to end bullying.]
Parent/Teacher
Kids ages: 4-7
Rita Y. Toews The Bully: A Discussion And Activity Story [short story/ discussion and coloring book about bullying./Q&A/express feelings/practical ways to deal with bullies/ Adult section informative with resources.
9-12 Cynthia Voigt The Bad Girls
4-8 Rosemary Wells Hazel's Amazing Mother
8-12 Michael Winerip Adam Canfield, Watch Your Back! [When some high-school kids mug him for his snow shoveling money, middle-grader Adam Canfield, star reporter of The Slash, is embarrassed when the media shares his story and his co-editors plan a contest to "out" bullies in their school.]
9-12 Doug Wilhelm The Revealers
8-11 Jacqueline Wilson Bad Girls
4-8 Taro Yashima Crow Boy [understanding and accepting differences]
9-12 Paul Zindel Attack of the Killer Fishsticks

The power of a book...

Emails received from readers of Freak the Mighty:

"i like the book freak the mighty it shows that little kids are smart and that they may be small but they could be bigger at other stuff see i am small but i know alot but i am always push around by big kids but i don't care because thats not going to hurt at the long run see i have lots of friends they help me so i am happy about that.See before i read freak the mighty i would be sad every time the big kids would push me around but now i don't."
BYE
yours truly janice :) :)

"Freak The Mighty is a great book. I am a kind of small person but not as small as Freak.People talk about how small I am and it used to bother me but it doesn't any more. Freak The Mighty can teach kids alot of things , and because of this book I don't feel so small."
Bye india


A Brave And Startling Truth
by Maya Angelou

We, this people on a small and lonely planet

Traveling through causal space

Past aloof stars, across the way of indifferent suns

To a destination where all signs tell us

It is possible and imperative that we discover

A brave and startling truth

And when we come to it

To the day of peacemaking

When we release our fingers

From fists of hostility

And allow the pure air to cool our palms

When the curtain falls on the minstrel show of hate

And faces sooted with scorn are scrubbed clean

When battlefields and coliseum

No longer rake our unique and particular sons and daughters

Up with the bruised and bloody grass

To lie in identical plots in foreign lands

When the pennants are waving gaily

When the banners of the world tremble

Stoutly in the good, clean breeze

When we come to it

When we let the rifles fall from our shoulders

And children dress their dolls in flags of truce

When land mines of death have been removed

And the aged may walk into evenings of peace

When religious ritual is not perfumed

By the incense of burning flesh

And childhood dreams are not kicked awake

By nightmares of abuse

When we come to it

Then we will confess that not the Pyramids

With their stones set in mysterious perfection

Not the Garden of Babylon

Hanging as eternal beauty

In our collective memory

Not the Grand Canyon

Kindled in delicious color

By Western sunsets

Not the Danube flowing in its blue soul into Europe

Not the sacred peak of Mount Fuji

Stretching to the rising sun

Neither Father Amazon nor Mother Mississippi who, without favor,

Nurture all creatures in the depths and on the shores

These are not the only wonders of the world

When we come to it

We, this people, on this minuscule and kithless globe

Who reach daily for the bomb, the blade, the dagger

yet who petition in the dark for tokens of peace

We, this people on this moat of matter

in whose mouths abide cantankerous words

Which challenge our existence

Yet out of those same mouths

Can come songs of such exquisite sweetness

That the heart falters in its labor

And the body is quieted into awe

We, this people, on this small and drifting planet

Whose hands can strike with such abandon

That in a twinkling, life is sapped from the living

Yet those same hands can tough with such healing, irresistible tenderness

That the haughty neck is happy to bow

And the proud back is glad to bend

Out of such chaos, of such contradiction

We learn that we are neither devils or divines

When we come to it

We, this people, on this wayward, floating body

Created on this earth, of this earth

have the power to fashion for this earth

A climate where every man and every woman

Can live freely without sanctimonious piety

And without crippling fear

When we come to it

We must confess that we are the possible

We are the miraculous, the true wonders of this world

That is when, and only when

We come to it.

Last Update: April 28, 2008